* We are at Paradise* 11th December 2008

Past few months we have been working very hard as we always said work hard but do have some fun..Life is not just bout money and working..we need to pamper ourselves once in a while. Away from our busy working schedule and hectic lifestyle in the city.

Had our light brunch in Puchong before we head to our Paradise..Shrek refused to tell me where we will be going but I already figured out what will be our next activity..I can read you!!

Here we are Cyberview Lodge Resort& Spa

View outside from our massage room

After we select our package, both us were guided to our changing place.

Sauna and steam room

Ja---cuzziiiii..I have completely my own privacy nobody was there..Cant wait to get in for my naked skin to feel the hot spring water. Yes Bite me...is sooo relaxinggggg...

After 20 min out from relaxing pond , I wished I could stay in longer ..a lady came and showed me the way to a cozy room where we had our massage and "Shower in the Garden"..it was superb..just that the bath tub was bit too short for us..according to Shrek, we have to sit up instead of lying our body...No pics on this most enjoyment moment, you should tried it out yourself..

First, was the whole body massage which drifted us off to Zzzzz followed by, the application of aroma oil which we have choosed.

After the massage, we had our short rest on a comfy couch..

Followed by scrub which is the body treatment..Shrek was saying they used peanut butter kind of smell and colour to apply on our body for the scrubbing..then we were covered by a thin layer of plastic for couple of minutes with the mud-peanut butter..

I can feel my smooth and shiny skin after the scrub after they removed the mud..

At the end,we spent 30 min in our bath tub indulge in a Rich Milk and Fresh Blossom Bath Scented filled with roses.

My smiley face

Shrek's goofy look..

A great and relaxing day on a public holiday after a late night in Velvet =)..

Thinking hard what is next??

Check out http://www.cyberview-lodge.com/spa/index.html for more detail.

p/s: As you noticed some of the pics are blur not I did it on purpose, I am still new with this camera.

F*R*I*E*N*D*S*H*I*P

How would you define friendship?
Common Chinese quote: At home you depend on your family but outside you depend on your friends.

True friends will be there for you always and stick with you through the good times share the laughter and bad times when you need a ear listen to you, a shoulder to lean on or a hug to reassured you everything gonna be alright. Browsing through your facebook’s comments, friendster’s testimonial, autograph etc you will notice this phrase “friendship forever” “ Best friends forever”. May I ask where are all your “Best Friends Forever” Friends? Do you still keep in touch with them? Were they there for you when you needed them the most? Or were you there for them when they need you?

True friends don’t stick with you always thru ups and downs but True friends are like Stars, you don’t get to see them always but in fact they are always there smiling at you.

A friend of mine- There is no such thing as best friends asking me not to be too naïve and childish. At the beginning, I truly disagree with him and we had a debate on this. Now I truly understand.

As you grow older you will realize those friends you frequently hang out with suddenly disappeared. But could you blame on their disappearing? No you cant! Because you are the one who put them on a pedestal, being too close and depend on them whereby they never put you as one.

As we grow older the busier we get the lesser time we have for our close friends especially entering Working World. Meeting different series group of people/ colleagues where me might spend most of the time with instead with our friends. Have to commit ourselves in work, relationship or family. Things start to change in term of our living lifestyle, circle of friends become bigger and complicated or the other way round. We will be having our own lives, thinking changed and going to different directions. That is how distance comes into the picture.

The distance slowly eats up the friendship that comes to an end.
Ending a friendship not necessary because hating each other or having a fight but because is time to move on by our own and we no longer need to be there for each other.
Don’t be upset because of the end of the friendship- Don’t Cry when comes to an end but Smile because it Happened.

Each of us is like a movie director where we are making our own movie from the day you were born. Friends come and go but ,some they played a smaller role in your movie,some might be still in your movie till the ending of your Movie..

Xiao Farn is back home

Maddie is back for holiday. This girl never changed still "little chili padi". She is a hardcover party girl, never missed out any party and rave back in Manchester.

What else can I say, YOU GO GIRL, ENJOY AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. =)

So the only place you can catch up with her will be in the club. Mr.Shuang suggested a club behind Sheraton Hotel in KL, forget the name of the club. Not worth mentioning, it was dead a boring place as the music sucks.

Firefly and Butterfly

Jen, Housefly and CheekyFly

We spend less than 2 hours and left for bak kut teh in KL. Me,Joe,Jean and Cliff enjoyed our bak kut teh more than in that boring club.

WARNING: THIS POST NOT FOR DIABETIC.

*Knowing someone thinks of me most of the time...
Someone I dont see myself with in the beginning..
Someone I accept as a good friend...
Someone who dont mind listening me whining and pouring my dissatisfaction.
Someone whom I really missed when this someone is million and million miles far away from ME..
Someone I almost missed out till the very last minute...
I might not know where our future will head to but I can promise you, I am going to spice up your life with chillies and pepper =P *.

He is special because he is simple and simple is the hardest thing to find in a person which I have finally found..
And he has finally "melt the snow mountain" =)

Some people may wonder when will they meet their perfect match?
There is no perferct match because
There are different series of people you meet when you are at different stage.
At different stage, you tend to have different view and needs.
Those people who get hurt from Love is okay cos you are entering a different stage where you meet new series of friends..
End of the day, you will know(dont ask me when and how? YOU WILL KNOW) if you meet the one in the end of your series which is your so called *Perfect Match*.

Knock* Knock* Where are YoU??

Yes yes I AM in the coconut SHell..BACK!!

Mountain High of work..Stress to the max that makes my Brain going on *Strike* demand for holiday!! (Procastinating,couldnt be bothered..just dont care)

Was admitted to the hospital 2 weeks ago and....after that..then...at the end,I am HEALTHY and SICK no more..but lesson learnt -MUST have personal insurance

Just a quick update Partay tonight, Maddie gal is back from UK for holiday.. ..Wohhooo,happening partay ppl will be in Town...

Life is Unpredictable and Short

Wednesday 22th October 2008.
SMS was sent at 3am. Woke up at 5am drag my butt out from my comfy bed,ride on a jet plane to JB and the sms:

"I have just been informed that Ryan has just passed away in a car accident near Taman Tasik."

WHHHHhhhAAATTT WTF????Was shocked and stoned for couple of minutes..FREEZE like a statue..Thought I am in my dream..IS that RYAN?my JB colleague "RYAN LAUW"?Is it really HIM?I just met him last thursday night for a drink in Starbucks. We even plan to party in Velvet in 2 weeks time cos he has to send his parents for medical check-up..wondering who will be sending them for check-up now? and he is going to buy me dinner when we meet up again..I Repeated reading the same sms few times* over and over again..after reading it I ignored the sms thinking it might be some joke BUT who on earth will sent this kind of crap joke??

My instinct telling me something is really wrong so I reply the sms to double confirmed.It was a quick reply :

"Yes my dear.He met with a bad accident. I went to see him but post mortem was taking place..So went saw the car..Quite bad!"

Everyone was dead shock with this news...it was my dampest and gloomiest day ever..Raining whole day long as it will never stop,Smiley Sun was MIA.

I will never see,hear,msn and recieve sms from him again whereby he just added me in msn and me added him in FB but will never be approved by him....So now everytime I am in JB it will remind me of him..happening fella..sms from him has been all removed from inbox as well as his contact..he just joined our company less than 4 months..

Right after he sent his girlfriend home, he met an car accident at the T-junction nearby his girlfriend place..He was thrown out from his FTO sportcar and I was told he did not tied his safety belt and the Volvo car who hit him is still hospitalised.

Dear Ryan,your sudden departure will be dearly missed by your family members, friends and colleagues..May you rest in peace. Farewell from now from the low lands.

Everyone esp those whoI cared alot-you know who you are..pls pls be extra careful on the road make sure you put on your safety belt all the time even short distance..You can argue saying Life is Fated, well it might be true but at least u did your part by preventing it to be happened.

Now I truly understand the meaning of live life to the fullest and appreciate people around you..

Alright Life goes on..gotta cheer up and look forward =)

**Sunshine after the Rain**

Not my day today. because is MONDAY.I was fined RM80 because of illegal parking.I left my handphone at home and I need to rush back home to get it.worried of my operation people wont be able to reach me..quickly i grab my car key and wallet..i almost reach home,only I realised "DAMN I forgot to bring my house key...I am so absent minded"..so back to office again.
Thinking will be dropping by just for few minutes so decided to park my car outside my office building instead of basement parking.. save time..once I step in to the office my boss asked me to start with our project dicussion..it was supposed to be at 10.30am by looking at the time is just 10am..guess it wont be too long so joined in with the discussion..

Half way during the discussion my boss was asked to meet someone in the conference room so he excuse himself for a short moment..he should have told me ,he will be away for like 30 minutes so I can actually go home and get my handphone..I started to panic as if i m in the hot soup worried bout lots of missed call I might received..as I wanted to sneak out he came back..so continue with the dicussion..after an hour,I am done.

Once I step out from the building I noticed lots of empty places, cars are all gone except few cars were still there..I get closer to my car,a piece of paper on my car windscreen,it is not an advertisment..DAMN I am FINED by MPSJ RM80 because cars are not allowed to park...What can I say??

It was a BAD start but it ended up with a BIG SMILE =)


It does not melt in my hand
It does not melt in my mouth
BUT it DOES MELT MY HEART....


Never fail to suprise me and making me HAPPY EVERYDAY eventhough you are far far away.

GOODBYE to my Bad-DAy...